Holiday Tomorrow

Well, as title says, we are off to Cornwall tomorrow for a week, thats me, Munch, granny and cousin. Daddy is staying home with the dogs. We have done lots of talking about it so watch this space.
Munch has just finished his 4 day football school which he has really enjoyed and was very pleased to recieve a medal at the end of it.
We have had a mixed time of it since last post, we have had some really heavy meltdown’s especially after my night away, followed by some really lovely settled periods, still with his little quirky way’s, but hay we cannot have it all!!!!
Our last 2 meltdowns have been post SW visits, the last being our 3rd review. We have said that until we have funding in place for play therapy for Munch we will not apply for our Adoption Order as we feel we owe it to him to fight his corner to get him the help he needs.
Will post again after our holiday.

Party and no Mummy for one night

Well it was my cousins 40th birthday on the weekend, it ment us having o go and stay over night at Granny’s after a very long drive, other family memebers would be staying as well, it was going to be a very big fancy dress party so after the meltdowns and and se backs we had had after visis and previously we decided not to attend, or so we thought!!
At about 12.30 on the dy of the party we decided to go after all, we had to go and get Munch a costume, so by the time we were ready to go it was 3pm, we arrived at Granny’s at 7.30 long after they had all gone to catch the coach, we got ready and went to the party, we all had a great time, Munch was looked after all evening by his big cousin, he loved running around with the others, they had a bucking bronco, which he enjoyed, he got a litle tierd towards the end, but had a great laugh at mummy and daddy dancing together. We got the coach back to granny’s, Munch and big cousin had a sandwhich at quater to one in the morning and off he went to bed at 1am and slept till 10.15 he next morning.
We travelled back early as we had left the dogs, Munch was brilliant, no fall out at all, early to bed and he was asleep not long after.
On Monday I had to go away for the night, I made sure that Munch knew what was happening, he went to school well, insisted on a quick cuddle outside of school!!! Daddy had to pick him up early as he was not well, was well enough to go back the next day and was happy to see me back when he came out of Beavers.
This morning though I think it was pay back time for leaving him as he was in one of his moods, nothing was right, he was contancarass, hit out, so ended up lossing the computer for a week. Happy to say that he came home in a better mood though.

Just a Little Update

Well its been a few weeks since I lasted posted and things here have been going well, hubby and Munch seem to be geting along much better, or should I say that hubby is much calmer with Munch and looks a lot happier in himself.
After a really bad few weeks what with Granny visiting and us visiting her, then Grampy visiting it all got to much, and we had some bad times with our precious very venurable little Munch, so we went back to basic’s and this seem’s to have worked. We have had a much calmer little boy.
Over last weekend we went to a friends BBQ and out the next day to watch the awful England-Germany game, Munch was a bit ott for the next few days but has calmed back down again.
We had done our 1st letterbox contact, they just need printing and sending now. I told Munch we were doing thema nd asked if he would like to do a picture to include to which he said no.
It is almost 6 months since our 1st meeting with our wonderful little man, and we would not be with out him now, love you Munch xx